Am I the only one who just can't get into the holiday spirit?

It's about what you can give, gifts or joy to other people. I have a young wife and a 5 year old daughter and this is my joy, giving to them, making them happy, and have a great Christmas. I expect and ask nothing for myself. The real joy of the holidays is giving with no expectation of getting anything in return. That and the understanding the reason for the season!